Effective Networking

Friday, March 12, 2010

The reason most folks out there are not able to maintain a workable networking is majorly because of certain factors that we shall consider here. What it really means by effective networking once again is efficient, efficacious; result oriented networking system in which the purpose of its existence is never defeated. It has been my observation that most people do not achieve the right results in networking and even in relationships generally, as a result of something in them which is blindly inherent, and cannot be quickly discovered for proper attentions.

For effective networking, the individuals involved must be ready to feel free and develop the proper sense of belonging that can help sustain a relationship. You will pitch up your tent with me that; this networking we are talking about is just like a common relationship. We all know it is important for the people in relationships to exercise certain degree of psychological freedom in terms of their thinking and how they view themselves. The same principle is also applicable here most especially when in very crucial need of workable networking system. The major problems that do not allow us to achieve this include: fear of rejection, arrogance, complacency, bad attitudes and others.

Considering the above, we can ask ourselves that; why do people nurse mostly the feeling that they will be rejected? Why is it that it is the negative that comes first? I believe it is because of the nature of such peoples' mind. I understand we live in a more or less negative environment, but we also have the needed inspiration to motivate us out of the minuses. It implies that we choose that way we live our lives; if you choose to live with fear then you may live in mediocrity for the rest of your live. Arrogance I am sure is an attribute of the confined mind; a confined mind is also a limited mind that will never see reasons to come down from his horse. Arrogance is never found in great minds.

If you are haughty, you are pretty hot on fire that will soon reduce you into the ashes of everlasting irrelevance. It is very abnormal, unusual an unnatural for a living being to be complacent. For successful networking, complacency is not welcome. This is because when you are self-complacent, you lose the motivations to yearn for more. There is something of great potentials in you that become assassinated in complacency. Bad attitudes are the worst, because you will always be at loss if you encourage such.

To start and maintain your network, you must also be committed, persistent with discipline as your watchword. Have a big self esteem, and most importantly, be able to socialize very well.

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